Spoke to son unit yesterday, partly to tell him he needs to get with it with his student loans which will star falling due at the end of December and to hear his side of what happened last weekend.
And yes there is another side of the story, or better put, wife unit spun her story for her convenience. But still he needs to learn to be a better host.
As to the stuff wife unit found, probably by snooping around when she should respect that the apt, no matter how humble, is his, I left that alone. There’ll be another time and perhaps a good explanation as well.